When It comes to dressing feminine and classy, the most commonly held belief or belief system around this topic - is that it’s all about dressing “girly” or “wearing high heels” all day and being uncomfortable.
And while I understand where this ideology comes from - it’s certainly not true.
Feminine fashion, or the act of dressing more femininely involves highlighting the beautiful curves in a female body.
And based on your body type, that may involve a beautiful ruffle dress with a cinched waist if you happen to have a rectangle body type. But not always.
So, while high heels make a woman look more feminine by causing the hips to sway more while enhancing her posture and elongating her legs - not everyone can wear heels.
How do I look more feminine?
Well, the easiest way to help you dress more feminine and look more classy is by building a feminine style capsule wardrobe.
And while other clothing brands will focus on trends, collecting tons of styles - our brand is different. (and if you want to read more about How Our Black Owned Clothing Brand Celebrates Femininity, click here to read)
Our goal is focusing on good quality feminine styles that work together to create a capsule wardrobe. We focus on quality, not quantity—and every piece in our collections is carefully selected for its craftsmanship and durability. Fast fashion churns out items quickly and cheaply, leading to clothes that often fall apart after a few washes while our styles are handpicked to last.
It’s made for real life. A capsule collection ensures that every piece in your wardrobe works together. And our stylists and team designed our collections to give you that transition seamlessly from day to night, work to weekend, casual to classy. You’ll be investing in feminine clothing that makes your life easier while keeping you looking classy and cute. Fast fashion can’t compete with our commitment to giving you adaptable pieces that reflect your true style every day.
No More “Nothing to Wear” Dilemmas. Have you ever stared at a closet full of clothes and still felt like you had nothing to wear? Girl, it’s the vain of our existence and one of the reasons why we wanted to go the capsule collection route. Our capsule collections eliminate that frustration. Instead of filling your wardrobe with trendy pieces that quickly go out of style, we provide you with key staples that are endlessly chic and always in style.
Our brand was born out of a desire to celebrate femininity, especially for black and brown women who deserve to feel soft, delicate, and beautiful. We don’t just sell clothes; we offer you a chance to embrace your femininity through high-quality, classy, and playful styles that uplift you, make you feel desirable, and empower you to express your true self.
So if you’re ready to dress more feminine and classy? Shop our collection today and discover how our handpicked pieces can help you unlock your feminine power.
HOW TO START DRESSING MORE FEMININE
In Dr. Daf's How to Start Your Feminine Journey Video, she gives a powerful advice for any woman who wants to become more feminine
Dr. Daf shares that a woman should commit to dressing her best every day. When you dress well, you feel amazing about yourself and that is attractive. Not to mention, you start to carry yourself with purpose. You show up.
So, if you want to dress more feminine but not sure where to begin.
Let's start at the beginning, and understand what feminine fashion is. And if you’ve read our previous post - what is feminine clothing, feel free to skip over this…
What is Feminine Fashion? What does it mean to dress more feminine?
At its core, feminine fashion or dressing more feminine is dressing in a manner that highlights your female attributes through beauty, makeup and fashion.
Now, let’s add a little more depth to that because this is so much more than just florals, lace or pink. It comes down to the fabric and construction of the material, how the style fits and feels and when is that particular material purposeful.
Additionally, feminine clothes are well-designed garments that often feature strategic seaming and reinforcement in key areas to enhance the women's silhouette. And we say all that to say that there’s so much more to dressing more femininely than wearing dressings and skirts.
But don’t worry, our hope is that this post will have you fully knowledgeable about feminine fashion in no time.
And we’d also encourage you to consider joining our email list, we’ll go into a lot more detail about this there.
What can I wear to look more feminine?
Now that we got the basics out of the way, let’s get into some intermediate level things.
Dressing more feminine will depend on your body type.
At Tiana Bay, we believe in embracing your God-given femininity - which means that by being born a woman, you are naturally feminine so when it comes to dressing more feminine, we are dressing in a manner that enhances your natural feminine features.
And it starts with your body type.
Body types are categorized into several shapes, each with its unique characteristics. The most common ones are the hourglass, pear, apple, rectangle, and inverted triangle.
And for the sake of this post, let’s focus on the five and little closely.
how to dress more feminine for my body type
1. Apple Body Shape
The apple body shape is typically characterized by a wider midsection with a large bust, narrow hips, and slender legs. Oftentimes, women with this shape often have little to no waist definition and may carry weight around their torso.
Styling for this bodytype would opt for a flowy wrap dress that cinches above her natural waist, skimming over the midsection would help define the waist while the flowy material avoids clinging to the midsection, giving a flattering, soft, and feminine shape.
2. Pear Body Shape
The pear body shape features wider hips that are larger than the shoulders and bust. Pear-shaped women typically have a well-defined waist and proportionally slimmer arms and shoulders, with weight gain primarily occurring around the hips and thighs.
Dressing femininely for this bodytype would opt to add volume to the upper body by looking for blouses with puffy sleeves, deep neckline to create balance and draw the eyes upwards and probably opt for dark colored high waisted trousers or aline skirts. Aline dresses and fit and flare dresses work well for this bodytype as well.
3. Hourglass Body Shape
This shape is defined by nearly equal bust and hip measurements with a significantly smaller waist. This body type naturally has balanced proportions, with rounder hips and busts and a narrow, well-defined waist.
Dressing more femininely for this bodytype would be to maintain the body’s natural balance by highlighting the waist. Fitted tops and dresses that nip at the waist, as well as styles that are belted, are excellent choices. Avoid boxy or loose clothing that hides the waist.
4. Inverted Triangle Body Shape
This bodytype is defined by broad shoulders and/or a larger bust that tapers down to narrower hips. This shape tends to project a sporty and athletic look with little to no waist definition and a flatter bottom.
Dressing femininely for this bodytype is to balance the broader upper body by adding volume to the lower body. Opt for clothes that add curves to the hips and create a more defined waist like the pleated skirts and wide leg trousers.
Opt for tops with deep V-necks or asymmetrical styles to break up the width of the shoulders. Stay away from wide necklines and shoulder details, such as shoulder pads.
5. Rectangle Body Shape
This bodytype is characterized by equal measurements across the bust, waist, and hips, giving the body a straight, column-like appearance. There is a lack of curves, and the waist is typically undefined. Rectangles tend to have a lean, athletic build.
Dressing femininely for this bodytype involves focusing on adding curves by breaking up the straight silhouette. You can do this by adding volume to both the upper and lower body, while pulling in the waist. Look for tops that have details like ruffles or embellishments around the bust and shoulders to create the illusion of curves. Belted dresses, wrap dresses, and fit-and-flare styles are great for defining the waist and creating a balanced silhouette.
Avoid boxy or shapeless clothing, as it can accentuate the rectangular shape. Instead, choose garments that nip in at the waist and flare at the hips to break up the straight line of the body.
The key to dressing more feminine for your bodytype is to look for pieces that are tailored to fit well and enhance your natural shape. And avoid boxy cuts because they generally obscure your form.
And while we would encourage using natural material whenever possible, dressing femininely comes down to the weight of the material, the construction of the garment and your lifestyle.
After all, polyester was created as an alternative to natural fabric because people grew tired of constantly having to iron their clothes and wanted something easy to wear. So while we encourage natural material, natural material requires care
At Tiana Bay, we only work with a handful of designers who we’ve carefully vetted for this reason. Our designers may use synthetic materials for their garments but the construction and quality is well-made and the material is used to maintain the integrity of the style.
How Tiana Bay Can Help You Become More Feminine
The easiest way to start dressing more feminine is to start with a capsule collection - start by selecting a couple of feminine pieces and build off that.
And at Tiana Bay, we focus on building curated collections along with capsule collections. With so many stores flooded with styles chasing after different trends, it’s so easy to feel overwhelmed and frustrated, not to mention the poor quality of fabrics to keep up with the ever changing trends.
So our approach is different. Our collections are build to last. We focus only on feminine styles that are timeless, made of high quality materials and expert tailoring to ensure you look and feel your best. We prioritize natural fibers but look for quality made more than anything.
And our capsule wardrobes are designed with versatility in mind—each piece can be mixed and matched to create a variety of looks that are elegant, timeless, and unmistakably feminine.
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Why We Believe that Dressing Femininely is a Celebration for Women
““You are worthy, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honor and power, for you created all things, and by your will they were created and have their being.””
Revelation 4:11 NIV
We believe that being born as a woman, you are inherently feminine. And while there are courses that may help you nurture your feminine qualities, our approach is to help you express your femininity through what you wear.
At Tiana Bay, we believe that feminine fashion is empowering because it allows you to celebrate your womanhood. Society often pushes the idea that being a woman makes you somehow less—like we're inferior or inadequate because we’re not like our male counterparts. But that was never what God intended.
You are fearfully and wonderfully made, and your femininity is a strength to be celebrated, not a weakness that should be hidden.
And our focus on feminine clothing comes from this deep belief. Each piece in our collection is carefully selected for both style and quality, designed to help you feel truly feminine and beautiful.
Dressing in a more feminine way is not just about fashion; it’s about embracing the beauty of being a woman.
The right clothes don’t just influence how others see you—they can transform how you see yourself.
Our thoughtfully curated styles are meant to bring out the softness, elegance, and beauty within you, helping you feel more feminine from the inside out.
Valerie, Co-Founder of Tiana Bay
My sister and I started Tiana Bay with a goal to help women reclaim their femininity with a curated collection of high-quality, classy, and playful styles. Our brand was created out of frustration to how black women were negatively portrayed in the media and our goal is to challenge the negative stereotypes surrounding black women and femininity
What Women Are Saying About Us
"The customer service is beyond impressive! Their attention to detail, personalization in packaging, and genuine concern for my satisfaction enhance my shopping experience so much"
Christy W, NC
At Tiana Bay, we believe that dressing feminine is more than clothes. It's about embracing our God-given femininity, how we feel about ourselves and how we show up in the world. Growing up, my sister and I struggled to find soft feminine clothing that reflected the women we wanted to become. So, we started a feminine clothing brand to help you feel soft, delicate and beautiful while challenging the negative cultural stereotypes. We want to help you celebrate the strength and beauty that lies within a woman who knows she was born for such a time as this.
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Is it me, or can it be difficult to find feminine clothes?
I remember starting on my feminine journey when I realized that what I was wearing wasn't working for me. I had recently graduated and started working. My friends tried to convince me that what I wear isn't as important as who I am.
And while I agree with that statement, what we wear is equally as important as who we are. Why? Because what we wear tells the world and ourselves who we are.
So for those who want to dress more feminine, we've listed 8 of feminine clothing brands.
1. Tiana Bay
(of course, we'd include ourselves, right ;) )
At Tiana Bay, we believe that what you wear is a powerful statement of who you are so. And so we women express their femininity by offering a curated collection of high-quality, classy, and playful clothes.
We do this by building capsule wardrobes and collections that help you look and feel more feminine, cute and attractive.
My sister and I started this brand to challenge the negative stereotypes about black women (ie superwoman, over-sexualized, or aggressive).
But soon we found an even greater issue.
Society viewed women who embraced femininity and traditional feminine as weak, inferior or submissive.
So, at Tiana Bay, we celebrate it.
We believe that femininity is God-created and should be cherished and celebrated.
Not idolized or demonized. And so the clothes we pick reflect that.
We also offer free shipping, returns and exchanges.
2. Lulus
Lulus offers a wide array of trendy and feminine styles.
They're price points are affordable, most styles are under $100 so they're perfect for a those who want to follow trends while maintaining a feminine wardrobe.
They offer free shipping on orders over a certain amount and they're return policy is also listed on their website.
3. LC Lauren Conrad at Kohl’s
If you’re a fan of vintage-inspired femininity, LC Lauren Conrad at Kohl’s is a must-shop.
We love this line because of the romantic dresses, delicate blouses, and cozy sweaters that are both budget-friendly and beautiful.
And LC is sold at Kohl’s so shopping is easy and convenient with the in-store and online options.
4. Adorned Vintage
Adorned Vintage is another boutique that focuses on vintage and feminine finds.
We love this brand because they offers one-of-a-kind vintage-inspired looks that adds the perfect touch to your wardrobe.
And they're curated collections are so cute, you can't go wrong with this brand.
They've listed out their shipping and return policy on their website.
5. Amantine
Amantine is another boutique that brings a little Parisian flair to your closet with its chic and feminine styles.
Their selection includes flowy dresses, tailored blazers, and romantic blouses, perfect for building a sophisticated wardrobe. And while they're not too focus on the vintage theme, their Parisian styles are cute.
Great investment pieces. And they offer international shipping and a customer-friendly return policy both on their website.
6. Nordstrom
For those look to splurge and invest in high-end pieces, Nordstrom is a great go-to.
With brands like Eliza J, Ted Baker, and their own in-house labels, you’ll find plenty of options that suit a feminine style.
Only caveat is that you should have an idea of what you're looking for before you go.
Also, Nordstrom’s excellent customer service, free shipping, and easy returns make it a favorite for many.
7. Kate Spade
Known for its playful and polished designs, Kate Spade brings a whimsical touch to feminine fashion. From dresses to accessories, this brand adds the perfect feminine touches to your wardrobe.
We love Kate Spade for their playful designs that are feminine and fun for any wardrobe.
Kate Spade’s shipping is reliable, and their return policy is generous, ensuring a seamless shopping experience.
8. LoveShackFancy
LoveShackFancy is the epitome of romantic, feminine dresses. With its dreamy dresses and intricate details, this brand is perfect for those who love a soft, feminine look. And while brand is more expensive, LoveShackFancy offers pieces that are worth the investment.
So, whether you're building a capsule wardrobe or just looking for a few key pieces, these eight brands have you covered.
And while each store has its own charm, our brand stands apart because our feminine clothing are created and selected to help you dress more feminine.
Our curated collection works together to create looks that will have you beaming with confidence.
So, shop us today and experience the elegance and sophistication that Tiana Bay brings to your wardrobe.
Are you wondering if bodycon dresses can be classy? The answer is yes! With the right material, bodycon dresses can absolutely be feminine and elegant. The key is to choose a dress made of a luxurious fabric and to pair it with feminine accessories.
Bodycon dresses are form-fitting dresses that accentuate the feminine silhouette and can be a powerful dress for any feminine women. Depending on the material, these dresses are appropriate for casual wear, work attire or even formal/wedding guest attire.
And this is not a rant about polyester because there’s some good and bad polyester.
When it comes to selecting bodycon dress, you want to lean toward a high-quality fabric to allow the dress to have enough stretch to accentuate your figure without being too tight.
You want the dress to be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to show that you're a lady.
For example, we have these two bodycon dresses that have a viscose/nylon blend. Viscose is a great choice because these dresses are breathable, soft and maintains its shape while adding the perfect amount of stretch to accommodate your body.
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When it comes to dressing feminine, many believe it’s all about pink, bows, and heels. But true femininity is about something much more. At Tiana Bay, we redefine feminine style with our curated capsule wardrobe collection. Our luxurious pieces are designed to flow effortlessly, helping you feel confident and composed in any situation. Discover how a few well-selected items can transform your wardrobe—and shop our collection to unlock the beauty of dressing soft, classy, and timeless.
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The scent of fresh-baked croissants and other delicious pastries fills the air, the soft clinking of glasses and the warm laughter of friends.
When it comes to brunch, it isn't just a meal - but a moment when we girls can come together and just celebrate life.
And what you wear should feel just as special.
At Tiana Bay, we believe every woman deserves to step into the world feeling effortlessly feminine, radiant, and admired. Whether you're sipping mimosas under the sun, sharing stories over a cozy café table, or celebrating love and success with your closest friends, the right outfit just makes everything come together— making you feel as soft, elegant, and captivating as the moment itself.
And here are our top five must-have brunch pieces that will have you looking feminine, soft and attractive.
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1. Classy Pink Blazer Romper: Classy Brunch Outfit for the Ladies Who Loves to Stand Out
If you are looking for the best classy outfit for brunch, the classy pink blazer romper tops that list.
Tailored to perfection, this romper combines the timeless elegance of a blazer with the playful charm of a romper.
It looks like a mini dress but has the coverage of the shorts built in to provide coverage and comfort.
And it's perfect for those moments when you want to feel sexy, yet classy, turning heads and receiving compliments with every step.
Whether it's a birthday brunch or a brunch date, this romper will have you shining like the star you are.
So, if you're looking for the best classy outfit for brunch, one that will have you feeling sexy, classy and receiving compliments with every step, grab your Classy Pink Romper today!
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2. Ivory Long-Sleeve Tweed Mini Dress: Classy Brunch Outfit for the Colder Months
Another dress that would be consider a cute and feminine classy outfit for brunch is the Ivory Long-Sleeve Tweed Mini Dress.
This tweed mini dress is perfect for those cooler months, because it's crafted from resilient durable tweed material. And unlike other poorly constructed dresses, this tweed dress is perfect for a brunch in the cooler/winter months.
Wear it to brunch and watch as you become the classiest girl at the table
If you're looking for the best winter classy dress for brunch, grab your long sleeve tweed mini dress today!
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3. PINK FLORAL MINI DRESS: CLASSY AND FEMININE MINI DRESS
The Rosalie Floral Fit & Flare Dress was designed for the woman who loves to embrace her God-given femininity boldly
This pink floral mini dress feels like you're the main character in a romanticized life. From the way structured waist cinches gently at the waist, sculpting your silhouette with a romantic touch before cascading into a flowing, flared skirt that dances with every step
Style it with ballet flats for an effortlessly dreamy daytime look or elevate it with heels for an enchanting look that's turning heads.
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4. TWEED Sleeveless Mini Dress: CLASSY AND FEMININE MINI DRESS
Another classy take on the tweed look but this is perfect for the warmer months. The Gabrielle Tweed Mini Dress features a polish and structured look that feels both powerful and delicate— because true femininity is both soft and strong.
Crafted from luxurious textured tweed , adorned with monochrome buttons and subtle fringe details, this tweed sleeveless dress comes off as an understated luxury and boast of elegance, prestige, and poise.
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Valerie, Co-Founder of Tiana Bay
My sister and I started Tiana Bay with a goal to help women reclaim their femininity with a curated collection of high-quality, classy, and playful styles. Our brand was created out of frustration to how black women were negatively portrayed in the media and our goal is to challenge the negative stereotypes surrounding black women and femininity
What Women Are Saying About Us
"I’ll admit I was hesitant because I had never heard of this boutique but it had the perfect dress for my daughters christening at a great price! Well I was pleasantly surprised! The communication about the order was top notch customer service and it got here so quickly! Then I opened it up and the quality was there! It has good weight to it and fine detail! Definitely was a good purchase! Highly recommend!.”
Lisa V
At Tiana Bay, we believe that dressing feminine is more than clothes. It's about embracing our God-given femininity, how we feel about ourselves and how we show up in the world. Growing up, my sister and I struggled to find soft feminine clothing that reflected the women we wanted to become. So, we started a feminine clothing brand to help you feel soft, delicate and beautiful while challenging the negative cultural stereotypes. We want to help you celebrate the strength and beauty that lies within a woman who knows she was born for such a time as this.
Feminine clothing is all about celebrating your God-given femininity. At Tiana Bay, we’re passionate about helping women reclaim their femininity through high-quality, feminine clothing. Discover how our elegant pieces can help you embrace your feminine power
